What happens when he gets angry?
Are you making any of these common boy-parenting mistakes?
Returning anger for anger
Making threats you don’t/can’t follow through on
Feeling defeated and imagining the worst outcome for your son
Giving up - even when you know your boy needs YOU, because you’re floundering, feel overwhelmed, and out of options
Talking too much - reasoning, nagging, pleading - even though this often only fuels the fires of more conflict and emotional turmoil
We can’t fix the boys until we do the work as adults.
The lion’s share of the “work” that needs to be done with boys and their anger issues falls on the adults:
Understanding the bigger context for you: recognizing and resolving how anger (and other emotions) were handled in your family of origin
Understanding the bigger context for him: the impact of cultural messages that boys get from day one - and how to help him interpret and dispel those messages
Recognizing that his anger is merely a SYMPTOM for other feelings and needs - and how to discover how he truly feels and what he really needs
Recognizing that impulsivity and reactivity are heightened when he doesn’t have a healthy physical outlet for his tension/anger -- and how you can guide him towards making wise, personal choices
Making sure you have the calm and confidence to be “IN” anger with your son - so he is reassured that you aren’t going to abandon him, no matter how badly he behaves
“I am so excited to get started and already feel some things opening up and some relief knowing that I will be working with you and receiving your coaching.”
The first step is to schedule your complimentary 50-minute Breakthrough Session.
It is a 100% confidential phone session with Janet that can forever change your parenting.
By speaking to an expert, who has spoken to thousands of parents of boys, you will discover what you and your son needs to thrive.
Think: increased joy, connection, and meaningful moments with your son.
Have a crystal-clear vision of your ideal relationship with your son, which allows you to act from a place of possibility and optimism, rather than anger, worry and fear.
Uncover the parenting habits that will keep you in conflict with your son, if left unaddressed.
Leave the session renewed, re-energized, and inspired to be the parent you truly want to be - and that your son deserves.
At the end of the session, if working together seems like a good fit - Janet will share options for continued support, so you can fast-track your progress and growth.
If you are ready to switch things up from what you’ve been doing - and begin creating (or re-creating) a strong, connected relationship with your son - schedule your complimentary session now.
